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Why
Do You Do It? (Confessions of Work at Home Parents) by Donna Schwartz
Mills
Launching
a home business is not easy. In the beginning, you deal with income
that comes in erratically, expenses you didn't count on and hours
you would have balked at if requested by an employer. So why would
anyone *choose* this life?
We
posed that question to the 21,000+ members of the ParentPreneur
Club -- most of whom are moms and dads who work at home to be more
available for their families. So it's not surprising that most of
them cited their children as their number one reason for starting
a home-based venture. But what struck us was the passion most of
them have developed for their new lifestyle:
'I
have started my business for one basic reason: I need something
for me' says Shannon Jarives of < http://www.amomsjoy.com >. 'It's
frustrating to be 'Kirk's wife' or 'Douglas's mom.' I needed something
that was totally mine and this small business is just the ticket!
I love being creative, sharing my thoughts through my writings and
sharing them with others. I also love the fact that I can help other
moms feel good about their roles!'
Teresa
Whitacre of --- echoes the sentiment:
'Although
my business is small right now (semi part time), it gives a sense
of being in control and really needed. I also get to choose what
I want to do when I want to do it. And, the money that I make goes
to my sons's college fund, so that's ultimately worth it.'
Financial
freedom was a subject that came up again and again in the responses
we received from our readers. Colin Taylor put it succinctly when
he cited 'Possible freedom, time freedom and financial freedom'
as his reasons for launching a business of his own. 'With all the
technologies most of us have in place it makes it easier then ever
to run and operate a home based business,' he said.
Some
of our respondents exhibited a little ambivalence about the work-at-home
life, which is not surprising given the uncertainty they've traded
for the security of their former jobs.
Cathi
Hobbins left the workforce after she and her husband moved for the
sixth time in 11 years. But even after deciding to give staying
at home a try, she still found herself looking in the classifieds
for job openings:
'Not
because I wanted one,' she said. 'I just wanted to know if there
were any opportunities. I found myself wanting to go back to work...sort
of. I dreaded the idea of leaving my kids, I had gotten used to
walking my 5 year old to Kindergarten and taking my 1 year old on
playdates.'
'One
day in the paper there was an ad... to do some presentation work
for the local health unit. Presentations were one of my absolute
favourite things to do at my last job,' she said.
So,
she put in a bid and got the contract - at a higher rate than she
had bid. 'It got me back into a daily routine, which I needed; it
was still only part time so that I could work while my kids were
in school and sleeping, and it was work I really enjoyed,' she said.
Cathi's
experience led to the launch of her new business, Ida Zine Office
Solutions < mailto:idazinesolutions@telusplanet.net >. She said,
'Business is great and I'm still here to get my daughter off to
grade one and I'm here when she gets home from school. I'm able
to take my 2 year old daughter to playdates during the morning and
work in the afternoons; my husband comes home to have lunch with
us most days and I'm getting to meet lots of new people in this
new city.'
Which
brings us back to the number one reason work at home parents decide
to work at home: To be better parents. The love and dedication these
'parentpreneurs' feel for their families is nothing short of inspiring.
As Vicki Haddon put it:
'The
number one reason why I do this, is so I can see my youngest son
get off the bus every day, look at the window and see me there waiting
for him, and witness the complete look of happiness and abandon
that comes over his face. Any doubts I ever have are dispelled in
that single second, and I know that even though the money is tight
right now, we have all we absolutely need to get by from day to
day. And twenty years from now, it won't be the old car and slightly
worn clothes I'll remember, it will be that smile. And then I'll
know without a doubt that it was all worth it.'
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Donna
Schwartz Mills is the work-at-home parent behind the ParentPreneur
Club < http://parentpreneurclub.com/cgi-bin/art/pl.cgi?hd > Find
out how we're getting healthy while earning a healthy living at
home - < http://www.unitoday.net/socalmom >
Donna
Schwartz Mills may be contacted at http://www.parentpreneurclub.com
donna@parentpreneurclub.com.
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Donna Schwartz Mills is a writer, editor and researcher who has
worked in both television and radio. She currently writes and edits
the ParentPreneur Club, an online magazine targeted to parents with
home-based businesses. Donna is a member of the Writers Guild of
America and Meeting Professionals International. She lives in Southern
California with her husband, Gareth, and daughter, Megan.
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